Posts by dhetzler
If God is going to be there, do it!
Hats folded like tacos. Even the preacher was a cowboy. The sermon opening was a summary of the bible story of Queen Esther. Esther’s cousin, Mordecai sent her a message: “Do not think that because you are in the king’s house you alone of all the Jews will escape. For if you remain silent at…
Read MoreNot Everything is a Lesson
First, the disappointment came. I cried out, “Why God? I’m a faithful servant!” The more I pondered the situation, the more angry I became. I wanted justice. I got angry with God. We had some words. Or should I say, I had words with Him. Then I prayed that He’d understand my heart. And that I’d…
Read MoreThe labyrinth
My spiritual director, Ruth, gave some basic instructions about walking the labyrinth. Then we sat in the stillness of the morning. She moved toward the entrance first. I remained seated. The only noise was the earth under her feet. A rumble of thunder from looming clouds was my signal to begin the holy walk. I…
Read MoreSlaying Giants
Once you’ve identified the childhood giants that taunt you, it’s time to slay them. How? There are three practices I’d like you to consider: If you want to slay your giants, the first step is to receive your anointing. You are gifted and called to serve God in your own unique way. So step into…
Read MoreChildhood Giants
The simplest things leave scars that we carry with us into adulthood. I call them “childhood giants.” These emerge from emotional events that shape our perceptions. I spent the majority of my life fighting three of these beasts: never good enough, abandoned, and carrying blame. I didn’t know how to confront myself and face the childhood giants I…
Read MoreMama J saved the day.
On our last visit to Florida, my restful time was interrupted by something that caught my eye…a long black line inside the lanai. But then it moved. My curious stare jumped to the realization that it was a snake! And not just one, but two. Now both were moving in opposite directions. EEEK! I sprang…
Read MoreYou can’t…
I notice it easily in others. Nonproductive attempts to control outcomes, invoke responses that’s desired, or ultimatums. I readily feel that twang of conviction when someone else succumbs to manipulation traps. But it’s easier to point a finger away. Unfruitful words such as: “You’ve got to stop acting like this, it’s going to put me…
Read MoreMy Little Project
I have this little project. But it’s no longer small. What was supposed to be a fun activity has left my creativity paralyzed. I bought a seahorse to put in my creative space. My grand idea was to paint words to live by on each wooden slat. What I’ve written doesn’t feel complete. Be Present.…
Read MoreTug Of War
A tug of war ensues within. Hope pulled against uncertainty. Uncertainty yanked back. The future, so, unresolved. A songbird lulls me to the present moment. This is where I should dwell. I breathe in expectation of a new season. Spring is approaching. I reflect. “I have learned to be content regardless of circumstances.I know what…
Read MoreI’ve missed our time together~
Hello Friend!It’s been a while. And I’ve missed you and our discussions.After a long dark desert season, I began writing my new book, Free to Receive.I’m excited to share that it’s been birthed into the world.Now, I’m refocusing on blogging and journeying with you once again. I’d like to invite you to join me in a new season…
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